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Tips and Destinations for the Solo Adventurous:
There’s something undeniably bold and beautiful about packing a bag, stepping out the door, and exploring the world all by yourself.
No waiting for someone to be “ready,” no endless group chats, no compromising your itinerary for anyone. Just you, your plans, and a whole world of possibilities.
It’s you saying, “I deserve joy, adventure, and peace, and I won’t wait for someone to join me before I go find it.”
So, if you’ve ever felt the urge to go on an adventure but you’re wondering if it’s okay to do it alone, this is your sign.
Whether you’re single, healing, rediscovering yourself, or just need a break from everybody and everything, solo adventures are one of the best gifts you can give yourself.
Here’s a mix of hard-earned tips and must-visit destinations if you’re ready to do life solo, at least for a little while.
Why You Should Travel Solo
Let’s be real. The world can be noisy. Family expectations. Relationship drama. Work pressure. Society telling you what age you should be married or how your life “should” look. But the moment you decide to step away from all that and take a trip alone, something shifts.
You start hearing your own thoughts again.
You stop performing.
You finally breathe.
Solo travel is where growth meets peace. You learn to enjoy your own company not just tolerate it. You start making choices just for you. What to eat. Where to go. When to sleep. Who to talk to. And most of all, who you’re becoming.
Solo-Friendly Destinations
1. Erin Ijesha Waterfalls, Osun State
Also known as Olumirin Waterfalls, this spot is a nature lover’s dream. It’s peaceful, scenic, and perfect for solo travelers who enjoy a mix of hiking and serenity.
As you climb the seven levels of the waterfall, you’ll feel both challenged and refreshed. It’s one of those places that reminds you how beautiful Nigeria really is and how refreshing it feels to be alone, surrounded by nothing but nature and rushing water.
Erin Ijesha Waterfalls,
2. Ado Awaye, Oyo State
Nigeria’s very own suspended lake. If you love hiking and scenic beauty, this is a hidden gem. The journey itself is part of the thrill. Go early, wear good shoes, and soak in the quiet majesty of it all.
Ado Awaye
3. Tarkwa Bay, Lagos
For when you want to feel far without going too far. Accessible by boat, this beach is laid-back, peaceful, and safe for solo wanderers. Book a simple beach house and enjoy long walks and warm sunsets.
Tarkwa Bay
Tips for Traveling Alone (Without Losing Your Mind or Your Wallet)
1. Start small, start smart.
You don’t need to hop on a plane to Dubai just yet. Start with local or nearby destinations, a road trip to a neighboring state, a quiet weekend in a resort, or a day hike. Ease into the solo lifestyle.
2. Research but don’t overplan.
Know the basics, safety, transport, where to stay but leave room for magic. Some of your best moments will be unplanned. Like stumbling on a street market or chatting with a local who tells you about a secret beach.
3. Pack light, but carry power.
Essentials only. One backpack is enough for most short trips. But always carry backup cash, a power bank, your ID, and your intuition.
4. Safety is key.
You don’t need to be paranoid, but be alert. Share your location with someone you trust. Don’t tell strangers exactly where you’re staying. And if your spirit says, “leave,” please leave.
5. Choose vibes over luxury.
You’re not out to impress anyone. Look for places that align with your mood, quiet spots, scenic views, good food, and friendly hosts. The goal is to feel free, not fancy.
Conclusion
Solo travel is not about proving anything. It’s not about pretending you don’t need people. It’s simply about choosing yourself. Learning yourself. Loving yourself.
It’s you saying:
“I deserve beautiful moments. I deserve peace. I deserve joy that isn’t borrowed.”