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10 Thoughts I Had While Watching The Firstborn
Some movies exist purely to entertain. others tell deep personal stories. As a firstborn myself, I can relate to this movie in many ways. From the sacrifices to the silent struggles, it felt like watching my daily life unfold on screen. Here are 10 thoughts that ran through my mind while watching this emotional rollercoaster.
1. Firstborns don’t talk enough about how hard it is
From the very first scene, with Oma and Ebuka washing plates under the rain while Oma’s voiceover spoke about the weight of being the firstborn, it felt so real. We take care of everyone and often forget ourselves in the process.
2. Mercy Johnson was made for this role

Ebuka and Oma
She didn’t just act Oma. She was Oma. The way she portrayed pain, love, pride for her brother Ebuka was as if she had passed through something like that in reality. Even moments when she was just sitting silently with a drink, from her eyes, you could tell she had been through a lot and there’s this loneliness quietly creeping in.
3. When did we start thinking struggle is normal
Oma sacrificed her entire life, and somehow society has made it look normal, like that’s how it’s meant to be. We’ve normalized putting our lives on hold for others so much that when someone like Oma breaks down, we don’t even see it as a red flag.
4. I love Bimbo — she’s that friend we all need

Bimbo and Oma
Every time Bimbo took that drink from Oma’s hand, it made me smile, those were the scenes I loved the most. She did it with humor and warmth without disregarding the level of Oma’s pain. Bimbo made me realize how important it is to have someone looking out for you, even when you’re pretending to be fine.
5. Ebuka’s job hunt is every Nigerian graduate’s story
First class graduate with an NYSC certificate and still no job? I felt his frustration deeply. It’s sad that after spending almost half of your life passing through school struggles and coming out successful only to find out that brilliance doesn’t always translate into opportunity in this country. That scene where Oma talked to her customer about Ebuka’s struggle and he got him the job just proved that everything is connection, you have to know somebody. To get a good job by just relying on your certificate, it’s by the grace of God.
6. Julia and Shirley gave off “bad energy”
I knew trouble was brewing the minute Shirley shot Oma a look of disgust and called her “wretched-looking.” Julia’s sudden change in attitude right after made my blood boil. Sometimes, the real threat to peace at home isn’t your partner — it’s the people whispering in their ear.
7. The weight of loneliness can kill you
When Oma collapsed, my heart sank. When the doctor said it was emotional trauma and loneliness, I wasn’t even surprised. It reminded me how many strong people are slowly dying inside while smiling and pretending to be okay.
8. Ebuka choosing his wife over his sister broke me
Even though I understood it, that moment when he shouted at Oma shocked me. I felt disappointed. She gave up her life for him, and all she wanted was a little space in the new world she had helped him build. I was livid.
9. That proposal at the hospital came too late

Oma on her sickbed
When the old customer finally confessed his love, I almost cried. Finally after all the pain, she finally had someone who saw her and she didn’t live to enjoy it. Life really isn’t fair sometimes.
10. We need to appreciate our firstborns more
Oma’s story made me want to hug every firstborn I know. We often carry too much, and we act like it’s fine when deep down we know it’s slowly eating us. This movie reminded me that while being strong is great, but what’s the point when the cost you pay is with your life.
Final Thoughts
This is to every first child out there, it’s okay to be selfish at times, so someone won’t end up eating the fruit of your labor.
Put yourself first and you’ll see there’s always plenty of room for your siblings.
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4 Nollywood Movies To Watch This Week
This week, we’re digging deep into the dark, tense, world of Nigerian thrillers and settling in for some much-needed family comedy. These four movies are a must-watch this week.
1. The Herd (Thriller, Drama)

Image: The Herd movie Cover: Instagram
A joyous wedding ceremony takes a sharp, terrifying turn when the bride, Derin, and the groom’s friend, Gosi are ambushed and kidnapped by gunmen disguised as cattle herdsmen on their way to the hotel. What follows is a tense, brutal fight for survival that forces the victims, and those negotiating their release to confront hidden family secrets and the chilling reality of Nigeria’s current insecurity crisis. The movie highlights societal issues.
The movie casts: Daniel Etim Effiong as Gosi. He also directed the movie. Genoveva Umeh as Derin. Linda Ejiofor as Adama (Gosi’s wife), Tina Mba and Adedimeji Lateef.
The Herd is less a movie but a punching commentary on Nigeria’s current reality. It tackles the terrifying threat of banditry and kidnapping with an unflinching realism that is so difficult to shake.
The herds costume was so on point, the storyline was well connected and the cinematography was crisp. A perfect adrenaline rush movie for the week. Watch the trailer here.
2. 3 Cold dishes (Thriller, Drama)

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Revenge is a dish best served across multiple countries. This thriller follows three women—Esosa (Nigeria), Fatouma(Côte d’Ivoire), and Giselle (Benin), who were trafficked and subjected to horrific abuse as teenagers. Two decades later, they reunite, now hardened and skilled, to execute high-stakes, multi-country revenge plot against the powerful and corrupt men who ruined their lives.
The cast features: Osas Ighodaro as Esosa, Fatou Toure as Fatouma, and Maud Guerard as Giselle, Femi Jacobs, and Wale Ojo. Watch the trailer here.
3. Safari (Drama, Romance)

Image: Safari Movie Poster: Instagram
A disenchanted wife of a prominent Nigerian politician decides to take a solo vacation to Kenya for a much needed Safari. Far from the opulence and control of her life in Lagos, she finds herself entangled with a local “beach boy”. The vacation takes a dangerous turn when her new companion is accused of the gruesome murder of British tourist, forcing her into a complex, morally ambiguous position in a foreign land.
The central conflict of an unhappy woman seeking identity and freedom is a universal theme, but placing her in a high-stakes murder mystery abroad turns the story on its head making it a masterpiece.
The cast features: Osas Ighodaro, Ali Nuhu, Emmanuel Mugo, Jide Kene Achufusi. See the movie trailer.
4. Grandpa Must Obey (Family, Comedy, and Drama)

Image: Grandpa Must Obey Movie Poster: Instagram
Mr. Akachi Okafor, a retired, grumpy, and traditional grandfather played by the veteran Kanayo O Kanayo is reluctantly left in charge of his two energetic and thoroughly modern grandchildren. What he anticipates will be a quiet weekend quickly spirals into a hilarious, generational chaos. From wild antics that turn his orderly world upside down to unexpected moments of tenderness. Get a glimpse of the drama here.
The cast are: Kanayo O. Kanayo as the grandfather, Darasimi Nadi and Fiyinfoluwa Asenuga as the mischievous grandkids.
This week’s movie menu is fantastic. Start with the intensity of “The Herd” for a powerful thriller, then follow it up with 3 cold dishes and Safari, and finally settle in for a good laugh with Grandpa Must Obey.
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What to Eat Before a Workout, According to Nutritionists
It is early morning, your bag is packed, and you are ready to train, except your stomach is reminding you it has not had anything yet. Many people struggle with whether to eat before exercising or wait until after. Nutrition experts agree that what you consume beforehand can influence how strong, alert, and comfortable you feel during your routine. Here is what they recommend, supported by established nutrition principles and research.
Timing Makes a Difference
The body needs time to digest food before physical activity. Eating too close to your workout may cause discomfort, while eating too early can leave you low on energy. Registered dietitians typically advise a light snack 30 to 90 minutes before exercise. For longer or more demanding sessions, a balanced meal 2 to 3 hours before provides more sustained fuel. This gives your system enough time to process the food while keeping energy levels steady.
Carbohydrates Provide Readily Available Fuel

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Carbohydrates are the body’s preferred energy source for physical activity. During training, muscles rely heavily on stored glucose, especially in moderate to high intensity workouts. Nutritionists often recommend easy to digest options such as bananas, oats, whole grain bread, rice cakes or crackers. These foods break down efficiently and supply glucose that can be used almost immediately. Heavy or high fat meals tend to slow digestion; for this reason, lighter carbohydrate based snacks are encouraged before a workout.
Protein Helps Maintain Muscle Strength

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Scientific evidence shows that consuming a small amount of protein before exercising supports muscle repair and reduces exercise induced muscle breakdown. Options such as yogurt, boiled eggs, lean meats, protein shakes or cottage cheese provide amino acids that assist the muscles during training. Pairing protein with carbohydrates, for example yogurt with fruit or toast with eggs, can help stabilise energy and contribute to smoother performance.
Healthy Fats Should Be Kept Minimal Before Exercise

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Fats digest more slowly than carbohydrates and protein. Because of this, large portions are not ideal just before a workout. However, a small amount can still be useful, particularly for longer, steady paced activities. Foods such as nuts, seeds, avocados or a small portion of nut butter offer energy without overwhelming the stomach. The goal is moderation to avoid sluggishness or digestive discomfort.
Hydration Comes First

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Hydration directly affects performance. Even mild dehydration can influence endurance and concentration. Sports dietitians advise drinking water 20 to 30 minutes before exercising and continuing to hydrate during activity when possible. For workouts lasting more than an hour, drinks containing electrolytes can help replace minerals lost through sweat. Proper hydration supports muscle function, circulation and overall exercise efficiency.
Practical Pre-Workout Snack Ideas
Banana with a small serving of nut butter.
Yogurt topped with fruit.
Oatmeal with a sprinkle of seeds.
Whole grain toast with eggs.
Smoothie made with fruit and a protein source.
Finding What Works for You
Research shows that individual responses to pre-workout meals vary. Factors such as metabolism, workout style and personal comfort influence what feels best. A practical approach is to test different foods and timing on days when the intensity of your training is moderate. Over time, you will identify what keeps you energised, focused and comfortable, allowing your workouts to feel smoother and more productive.
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Niyi Akinmolayan Unveils Teaser for “Colours of Fire” Starring Osas Ighodaro and Uzor Arukwe
The curtains have been drawn, and the stage is set for a cinematic masterpiece. Niyi Akinmolayan, dropped the teaser for his latest film “Colours of Fire” starring Uzor Arukwe and Osas Ighodaro as lead actors, set to be released on 24th December, 2025.

Image: Osas Ighodaro
The plot looks at when love sparks between two enemies, an empire is thrown into chaos. A prophecy came to life, which could change everything. The trailer leaves you wondering how love can grow between enemies and the disagreement that comes from both empires could throw what they share into a war. Well, will the prophecy change everything and mend both empires?
The movie is a thriller set in a traditional African theme of the 90’s. Each scene blended with the concept of the movie, from the rich and cultural set design, to the vibrant and bold colours of costume which perfectly represents the sub-title of the film “Every colour tells a story”, down to the royal hair styles of the casts combined with it’s dark shade makeup category. The cinematography is visually appealing with themes of red, blue, and gold in most scenes which communicated the effectiveness and emotional display of the movie.

Image: Uzor Arukwe cast reveal cby Niyi Akinmolayan
You can tell a movie will be worth your time when you see the cast. Uzor Arukwe and Osas Ighodaro are two formidable stars in the film industry. From the trailer you can get a sense of their characters. Uzor Arukwe brings that intensity and tension which makes us wonder what secrets his character holds. Osas Ighodaro brings this sultry aura and fierceness, you can’t help but be drawn to her story. The chemistry between them is intense and we look forward to it on our screen.
While the teaser doesn’t give away too much, it hints at a story of love, culture, and romance. If you are a fan of these genres, you should keep an eye out for this one.
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