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10 Love Languages Women Respond to

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About a year ago, my best friend’s husband sent an SOS to me. It came as a shock; for starters it was the first time he was sending that type of message, secondly, I was troubled when he made me promise not to tell his wife about our little phone chat. I arrived ten minutes early to the place he had picked with a mild headache as a result of overthinking.

When he arrived, I noticed he looked drained and had bags under his eyes and seemed to have lost a few pounds from the last time we saw. He sat down heavily in a chair, “your friend is driving me nuts,” he blurted out, “she’s changed, so unreasonable and difficult to satisfy and it’s killing me.” I felt instant pity for him, this was a man in-love with his wife and ready to do anything to make her happy. I heaved a sigh of relief asked him not to worry as I educated him on Gary Chapman’s “love language” he left with a new spark in his eye and safe to say things have been going just perfect for them.

Relationship can never be perfect because people are not perfect. Every man or woman faults as well as virtues. We are sad, selfish, ungrateful or rude. We all have our definition of love, your definition of love cannot be the same as your partner’s and this is where problem comes from. Your woman is not unreasonable or detached you just haven’t discovered what her love language is yet. According to Gary Chapman, the author of “The Five Love Language” here are ten most common love language that women use or respond to.


Quality Time: Being married or in a long term relationship doesn’t mean fun has to end. Plan uninterrupted time with her such as romantic dinners, trips and movie dates. Be intentional about her interests and values by doing this you make her feel cherished.

Physical Touch: Affection in form of touching is not primarily reserved for making love. This can be anything from holding hands to cuddling. Touch is powerful and speaks louder than words, especially for women who prioritize this love language.

Acts of Service: Doing something practical for her, like gisting with her while she cooks or running an errand, can make a woman feel loved and supported.

Listening: Not listening is the number one mistake most men make. Women like to talk, and value it when their partner truly listens to them and responds thoughtfully to what they’re saying.

Compliments: Every woman wants to feel special. Not just feeling sexually attractive to you, but they want to know they’re appreciated, use your words.

Recieving Gifts: For women who prioritize this love language, gifts don’t have to be expensive or extravagant; even small thoughtful gestures like a call in the middle of the day can make a big impact.

Quality Conversation: Women use conversation primarily to form connections with people, with that said, having meaningful discussion can help strengthen the emotional connection between partners.

Acceptance: No woman wants to walk on eggshells around her partner. Women who prioritize this love language want to be fully accepted and not rejected for who they are or what they want.

Unforgettable Memories: Looking back on shared experiences, such as anniversaries, special vacations, or other memorable moments, can be a powerful way to strengthen a relationship.

Emotional Support: Nothing beats having a compassionate partner that feels your pain as much as you do and support you. Women who prioritize this love language might feel unloved if you’re not supportive emotionally.

Remember, the key is to find out which love language your partner prefers.

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  1. JP

    24 August 2024 at 6h42

    I just got schooled. Lol! Thanks

  2. Queen of White Hearts

    24 August 2024 at 19h40

    Great!!!

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Top 10 Nail Polish Brands in The World

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From the days of the Egyptians till now, nail polish has been a means of beauty enhancement and making statement gestures. it has always been a sensation to be in the cutest and most vibrant colors and shades of nail polishes.Also, the array of their bottles in the closet of most women proves this.

In this article, we will be introducin.g to you some of the top nail polish brands in the world.You will be amazed at the beauties which you will be introduced to so sit tight and enjoy. Top nail polish brands in the beauty fashion world include:

 

1.OPI.

OPI is a division of the Wella companies and is for professionals, newbies, and sit at home gurus.

This fashion brand leads the nail fashion industry and is dedicated to providing unlimited number and best quality of shades and the highest quality of products, artistry and techniques. Ranging from their bright award winning colours to innovative treatments and devices, they ensure to make the ‘I’ in OPI count.

It was founded by Suzi Weiss- Fishchmann and is famous for its long lasting formula and extensive range of colour.

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OPI polish

2.ESSIE.

For more than 40 years, Essie has been a color authority and a leader in the nail industry. Essie Weingarten founded the brand in 1981. Essie does a good job of connecting the world through colors and its statements. This brand is a go to nail polish for fashion junkies, professionals, celebrities and fashion icons around the world.

They offer a wide collection of colors that are highly anticipated and drive trends season after season. These quality formulas have led to the creation of an array of products including gel couture, expressie, LOVE by Essie and Essie care. The founder says that her goal is to “help women feel special and have the perfect manicure”. Also, its chic application earns it more popularity.

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Essie

 

 

3.Sally Hansen.

Sally Hansen is an American beauty brand founded in 1946 by Sally Hansen. It has become a household name famous for its dedication to making innovatively formulated and affordable beauty products for women. It had launched with just two nail products which included the iconic “Hard as nails”. The award winning brand now has over 300 shades which is distributed in over 55 countries. It is rated No. 1 nail brand in USA among other countries.

It also has nail products spanning five categories namely: nail colour, nail care, sunless tanning, hair removal, and beauty tools.

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Sally Hansen.

4.China Glaze.

Over the decades, China Glaze has exceeded the bars that have been set in the nail world. They are dedicated to producing rich, on trend and innovative colour lacquers and treatments. Their colours ranging from neon, to red, to blue, to corals, the colours provide accent to different and any individual style.

Their lacquers contain China clay as nail hardener, the same material that gives porcelain it’s shiny finish. These lacquers work perfectly hand in hand with the nail treatments to ensure lasting strength, durability and overall beautiful nails.

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China Glaze.

5.ZOYA.

Zoya is known for its 10-free formulas and eco friendly approach. It was founded in 1986 by Zoya and Micheal Reyzis, who were immigrants from former USSR and moved to America in 1979. Zoya is a vision that started as a nail salon then further evolved into a spa focusing on natural nails, skincare and European herbal treatment.

It has grown over the years to become the manufacturers of most innovative beauty products that ever produced. Michael created the first ever working fast dry topcoat and longest wearing, toxin free natural nail polish which revolutionized the nail industry. Superior quality, convenience and value is offered to spas through brands like ZOYA nail lacquers, QTICA treatments and so on.

6.Butter London.

This beauty brand was founded in 2005 by Sasha Muir and Nonie Creme. Asides an wide range of other beauty products, they are known for their luxurious and long lasting nails. Butter London offers over 100 shades of 8-free, vegan free, and cruelty free nail polish. Some of their popular products include:

Yummy Mummy which is a best selling neutral shade,

Brolly, a sophisticated dark blue shade,

Union Jack Black, a deep inky black shade that never goes out of style and many others.

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Butter london.

Read also: TOP 10 EX FASHION BEAUTY QUEENS IN NIGERIA IN 2024. 

7.Maybelline New York.

Maybelline New York is an American cosmetic shop and it came to life  in 1914 by Thomas Lyle Williams. They offer a large array of products ranging from foundations, to eye shadows, to nail polishes. Also known for its long lasting formula, its chip and fade resistance, its easy application and lots more is this Maybelline nail polish. It has been a subsidiary of L’Oreal since 1996 and have produced popular shades like:Rosie glow, Timeless Taupe, Downtown red and many others.

8.Chanel.

Chanel is an iconic french fashion brand that deals in all kinds of beauty products and offers an luxurious range of exquisite nail polishes. One thing they don`t compromise is the high quality formulas, Long lasting wear and timeless and elegant shades of their polishes.

A few unique features to note are their long lasting chip-resistant formulas, the high shine finish,easy application with precision brush and its luxury packaging. A few of its best selling shades include ballet slippers, Rouge noir, Beige, Graphite and so on.

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Chanel.

9.DIOR.

Dior is a luxury fashion brand that offers an amazing range of exquisite nail polishes known for their high quality formulas, Long lasting wear and timeless and elegant shades.

Some notable innovations include the Diors patented “Texture-agent” for smooth application and “shine-boosting” complex for long lasting shine. Its popular shades include 999,nuit, mirage and many others.

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Dior

10. Gucci.

Their nail polish is a must have for anyone who is looking for high quality and long lasting nail polish with vibrant colors. This brand, being a luxury brand has a wide range of colours to choose from to suit client`s style.

Some features that distinguish it from others are including long lasting chip-resistant formulas, the high shine finish,easy application with precision brush, its luxury packaging, plant based formula with ingredients like Vitamin E and red algae to help nail health amongst others. Some of their bestsellers include Dorothy turquoise, Peggy sunburn, crystal black and many others.

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Gucci

Women always want to be in their best that will make heads sway whenever they are around. I’ll love to know if you are fascinated by any of these.

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DJ cuppy to become “first female president”

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Florence Ifeoluwa Otedola, popularly known as DJ Cuppy, recently made history by becoming the first British-Nigerian to host an opening session at the United Nations General Assembly (UNGA).

This momentous event took place during the “Summit of the Future, Youth Action Day,” an important initiative aimed at galvanizing global youth to participate in solving pressing issues related to the United Nations’ Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs).

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Cuppy, who is also a renowned philanthropist, was the moderator for the Youth Action Day, and she captivated the audience with her charisma, electrifying the session with her dynamic energy.

In her keynote, she casually hinted at her aspiration to become Nigeria’s first female president, which prompted a humorous and encouraging response from Amina J. Mohammed, the UN Deputy Secretary-General

DJ Cuppy’s participation highlighted the significance of youth involvement in global affairs, and her presence at the event further underscored the importance of female leadership, especially for young women across Africa.

Cuppy concluded her involvement with a musical performance that left a powerful impression, sealing her role as a trailblazer in both the entertainment and global advocacy arenas

In the comment section of the video, viewers shared their thoughts on the event and its broader implications for global governance and youth leadership.

One user, ShahrezadNorMohammadiy9116, expressed optimism about the younger generation’s potential to address global challenges, stating that “effective intergenerational initiatives and collaborations” could foster development and recovery. This reflects the sentiment that youth-led actions, such as those promoted at the Summit, hold the key to the world’s future.

 

However, not all comments were in agreement.

User jellybeanz3405 expressed skepticism, stating, “Keep your global governance to yourself. The people of America like our sovereignty,” highlighting concerns about the implications of global initiatives for national independence.

 

Another commenter, EdwardLawrence-12345, struck a more hopeful tone, proclaiming, “We are the next super global leaders,” while quoting Marcus Tullius Cicero: “Any man can make mistakes, but only an idiot persists in his error,” emphasizing the importance of learning from past mistakes as we navigate toward global leadership.

 

These comments reflect the diversity of opinions surrounding global governance and the role of young leaders, with some hopeful for change and others wary of external influence.

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Davido accuses INEC

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Nigerian Afrobeat star Davido recently took to social media to strongly criticize the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) over its handling of the Edo gubernatorial election, which took place on September 21, 2024.

Davido’s critique primarily focused on delays in the arrival of voting materials, the failure to electronically transmit results, and what he described as a pattern of electoral mismanagement by INEC.

 

Although Davido is from Osun State, he explained that his interest in the Edo election stems from his personal connection his late mother hailed from Edo State.

 

His deep frustration with INEC’s actions, however, goes beyond family ties. Having witnessed similar issues during the Osun gubernatorial elections, Davido declared that INEC had not lived up to its promise of transparency and accused it of being “the most dangerous institution in Nigeria.”

In his impassioned posts on X (formerly Twitter), Davido urged Edo residents to protect their votes by closely monitoring the entire electoral process from polling units to collation centers.

He warned of potential electoral manipulation and called for extended voting hours in response to the delays. Davido’s criticisms of INEC echo widespread concerns about the transparency of Nigeria’s electoral processes,

particularly with the lack of electronic transmission of results, which many see as a critical step toward reducing rigging and promoting fair elections.

In another of his tweet, he claimed they have written results in Edo North.

What do you think of INEC behavior regarding election?

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