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Bad Sex? Here’s How to Avoid it and Improve Your Intimacy.

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No More Bad Sex – Simple Ways to Make Intimacy Better

Sex and sexual intimacy is a very sensitive and crucial part of a relationship and honestly, for some relationships, what would make or break it is the quality of sexual intimacy.

Bad sex therefore can leave one or both partners feeling dissatisfied, disconnected and frustrated and if not checked on time, in some cases can lead to the end of a relationship.

Whatever it is you struggle with sexually especially with your partner doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship and so this article would point out tips that would improve your sexual intimacy so you have a happier relationship.

1. Openly and Honestly Communicate

Healthy communication strengthens bonds

Healthy communication strengthens bonds

Communication is important for the growth of a relationship and that doesn’t exclude communication about sexual activity. One mistake a lot of people make is keeping quiet about something you don’t like that is going on.

If you don’t feel satisfied, speak up. You want to explore more, speak up. You don’t like a thing or two your partner does, speak up.

You are not a mind reader and your partner isn’t one either, the only way they know what they should improve on is when you communicate about it.

Don’t be scared to communicate your feelings or make the mistake of thinking you can endure it. Open up to your partner so you both can find a lasting solution to the issue or concern.

2. Prioritize Foreplay and Emotional Connection

Prioritize foreplay and emotional connection

Prioritize foreplay and emotional connection

Another mistake a lot of partners especially the males make is skipping foreplay entirely and rushing to sex. A study in 2022 by LELO found that 70% of women reported not getting enough foreplay before sex.

This could lead to dissatisfaction and disappointment as foreplay is not just about physical touch but also about connection and sexual intimacy with your partner.

To improve foreplay, try non-sexual intimacy including deep conversations, eye contact and laughter, explore different types of touch, either massage or light teasing, etc. This builds anticipation before sexual intimacy.

3. Stay Confident

Stay confident

Stay confident

Stay confident especially during sexual intimacy is important. A lack of confidence in your body or performance would lead to feelings of self consciousness and stress that reduces the quality of sex. The more confident you feel, the better the experience for you and your partner.

To boost sexual confidence, wear something you’re comfortable and confident in, especially for ladies. Make sure to focus on what you love about yourself and not your imperfections.

Most importantly, understand that sex is not about being perfect, it’s about connecting with your partner and the both of you fulfilling your sexual desires and expectations.

4. Keep Things Adventurous and Exciting.

Keep things exciting and adventurous

Keep things exciting and adventurous

You begin to have a problem when sex feels like a burdensome chore and not something to look forward to doing with your partner. This is why you should not make sex a routine, it kills passion.

Here are things to try:

1. Explore a new location different from where you and your partner are used to or switch up the regular position.

2. Explore foreplay, fantasies and whatever else you both are comfortable with. Don’t be put in a box!

You can plan a surprise, intimate date that leads to sexual intimacy. Surprises spice up things too!

5. Educate Yourself and Explore Together

Stay informed and knowledgeable about intimacy and sexual activity

Stay informed and knowledgeable about intimacy and sexual activity

A lot of people have so many misconceptions about sex, relationships and intimacy and that is why being knowledgeable about some things would naturally improve the quality of your relationship sexually and otherwise.

Learn and grow together by reading books, watching videos, attending workshops that teach about intimacy. You can also discuss boundaries and desires openly and focus more on connection.

By noting and acting on these steps, you can improve the quality of your sexual activity and intimacy with your partner. The key focus is being open about your desire and striving to connect with your partner. With understanding, time and effort, you can build a happier, more intimate relationship both in and outside the bedroom.

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4 Nollywood Movies To Watch This Week

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This week, we’re digging deep into the dark, tense, world of Nigerian thrillers and settling in for some much-needed family comedy. These four movies are a must-watch this week.

1. The Herd (Thriller, Drama)

Image: The Herd movie Cover: Instagram

Image: The Herd movie Cover: Instagram

A joyous wedding ceremony takes a sharp, terrifying turn when the bride, Derin, and the groom’s friend, Gosi are ambushed and kidnapped by gunmen disguised as cattle herdsmen on their way to the hotel. What follows is a tense, brutal fight for survival that forces the victims, and those negotiating their release to confront hidden family secrets and the chilling reality of Nigeria’s current insecurity crisis. The movie highlights societal issues.

The movie casts: Daniel Etim Effiong as Gosi. He also directed the movie. Genoveva Umeh as Derin. Linda Ejiofor as Adama (Gosi’s wife), Tina Mba and Adedimeji Lateef.

The Herd is less a movie but a punching commentary on Nigeria’s current reality. It tackles the terrifying threat of banditry and kidnapping with an unflinching realism that is so difficult to shake.

The herds costume was so on point, the storyline was well connected and the cinematography was crisp. A perfect adrenaline rush movie for the week. Watch the trailer here.

2. 3 Cold dishes (Thriller, Drama)

Image: 3 Cold Dishes Movie Poster: Instagram

Image: 3 Cold Dishes Movie Poster: Instagram

Revenge is a dish best served across multiple countries. This thriller follows three women—Esosa (Nigeria), Fatouma(Côte d’Ivoire), and Giselle (Benin), who were trafficked and subjected to horrific abuse as teenagers. Two decades later, they reunite, now hardened and skilled, to execute high-stakes, multi-country revenge plot against the powerful and corrupt men who ruined their lives.

The cast features: Osas Ighodaro as Esosa, Fatou Toure as Fatouma, and Maud Guerard as Giselle, Femi Jacobs, and Wale Ojo. Watch the trailer here.

3. Safari (Drama, Romance)

Image: Safari Movie Poster: Instagram

Image: Safari Movie Poster: Instagram

A disenchanted wife of a prominent Nigerian politician decides to take a solo vacation to Kenya for a much needed Safari. Far from the opulence and control of her life in Lagos, she finds herself entangled with a local “beach boy”. The vacation takes a dangerous turn when her new companion is accused of the gruesome murder of British tourist, forcing her into a complex, morally ambiguous position in a foreign land.

The central conflict of an unhappy woman seeking identity and freedom is a universal theme, but placing her in a high-stakes murder mystery abroad turns the story on its head making it a masterpiece.

The cast features: Osas Ighodaro, Ali Nuhu, Emmanuel Mugo, Jide Kene Achufusi. See the movie trailer.

4. Grandpa Must Obey (Family, Comedy, and Drama)

Image: Grandpa Must Obey Movie Poster: Instagram

Image: Grandpa Must Obey Movie Poster: Instagram

Mr. Akachi Okafor, a retired, grumpy, and traditional grandfather played by the veteran Kanayo O Kanayo is reluctantly left in charge of his two energetic and thoroughly modern grandchildren. What he anticipates will be a quiet weekend quickly spirals into a hilarious, generational chaos. From wild antics that turn his orderly world upside down to unexpected moments of tenderness. Get a glimpse of the drama here.

The cast are: Kanayo O. Kanayo as the grandfather, Darasimi Nadi and Fiyinfoluwa Asenuga as the mischievous grandkids.

This week’s movie menu is fantastic. Start with the intensity of “The Herd” for a powerful thriller, then follow it up with 3 cold dishes and Safari, and finally settle in for a good laugh with Grandpa Must Obey.

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What to Eat Before a Workout, According to Nutritionists

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‎It is early morning, your bag is packed, and you are ready to train, except your stomach is reminding you it has not had anything yet. Many people struggle with whether to eat before exercising or wait until after. Nutrition experts agree that what you consume beforehand can influence how strong, alert, and comfortable you feel during your routine. Here is what they recommend, supported by established nutrition principles and research.

Timing Makes a Difference

The body needs time to digest food before physical activity. Eating too close to your workout may cause discomfort, while eating too early can leave you low on energy. Registered dietitians typically advise a light snack 30 to 90 minutes before exercise. For longer or more demanding sessions, a balanced meal 2 to 3 hours before provides more sustained fuel. This gives your system enough time to process the food while keeping energy levels steady.

Carbohydrates Provide Readily Available Fuel

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Carbohydrates are the body’s preferred energy source for physical activity. During training, muscles rely heavily on stored glucose, especially in moderate to high intensity workouts. Nutritionists often recommend easy to digest options such as bananas, oats, whole grain bread, rice cakes or crackers. These foods break down efficiently and supply glucose that can be used almost immediately. Heavy or high fat meals tend to slow digestion; for this reason, lighter carbohydrate based snacks are encouraged before a workout.

Protein Helps Maintain Muscle Strength

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Scientific evidence shows that consuming a small amount of protein before exercising supports muscle repair and reduces exercise induced muscle breakdown. Options such as yogurt, boiled eggs, lean meats, protein shakes or cottage cheese provide amino acids that assist the muscles during training. Pairing protein with carbohydrates, for example yogurt with fruit or toast with eggs, can help stabilise energy and contribute to smoother performance.

Healthy Fats Should Be Kept Minimal Before Exercise

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Fats digest more slowly than carbohydrates and protein. Because of this, large portions are not ideal just before a workout. However, a small amount can still be useful, particularly for longer, steady paced activities. Foods such as nuts, seeds, avocados or a small portion of nut butter offer energy without overwhelming the stomach. The goal is moderation to avoid sluggishness or digestive discomfort.

Hydration Comes First

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Hydration directly affects performance. Even mild dehydration can influence endurance and concentration. Sports dietitians advise drinking water 20 to 30 minutes before exercising and continuing to hydrate during activity when possible. For workouts lasting more than an hour, drinks containing electrolytes can help replace minerals lost through sweat. Proper hydration supports muscle function, circulation and overall exercise efficiency.

Practical Pre-Workout Snack Ideas

Banana with a small serving of nut butter.
Yogurt topped with fruit.
Oatmeal with a sprinkle of seeds.
Whole grain toast with eggs.
Smoothie made with fruit and a protein source.

Finding What Works for You

Research shows that individual responses to pre-workout meals vary. Factors such as metabolism, workout style and personal comfort influence what feels best. A practical approach is to test different foods and timing on days when the intensity of your training is moderate. Over time, you will identify what keeps you energised, focused and comfortable, allowing your workouts to feel smoother and more productive.

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Niyi Akinmolayan Unveils Teaser for “Colours of Fire” Starring Osas Ighodaro and Uzor Arukwe

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The curtains have been drawn, and the stage is set for a cinematic masterpiece. Niyi Akinmolayan, dropped the teaser for his latest film “Colours of Fire” starring Uzor Arukwe and Osas Ighodaro as lead actors, set to be released on 24th December, 2025.

Image: Osas Ighodaro

Image: Osas Ighodaro

The plot looks at when love sparks between two enemies, an empire is thrown into chaos. A prophecy came to life, which could change everything. The trailer leaves you wondering how love can grow between enemies and the disagreement that comes from both empires could throw what they share into a war. Well, will the prophecy change everything and mend both empires?

The movie is a thriller set in a traditional African theme of the 90’s. Each scene blended with the concept of the movie, from the rich and cultural set design, to the vibrant and bold colours of costume which perfectly represents the sub-title of the film “Every colour tells a story”, down to the royal hair styles of the casts combined with it’s dark shade makeup category. The cinematography is visually appealing with themes of red, blue, and gold in most scenes which communicated the effectiveness and emotional display of the movie.

Image: Uzor Arukwe

Image: Uzor Arukwe cast reveal cby Niyi Akinmolayan

You can tell a movie will be worth your time when you see the cast. Uzor Arukwe and Osas Ighodaro are two formidable stars in the film industry. From the trailer you can get a sense of their characters. Uzor Arukwe brings that intensity and tension which makes us wonder what secrets his character holds. Osas Ighodaro brings this sultry aura and fierceness, you can’t help but be drawn to her story. The chemistry between them is intense and we look forward to it on our screen.

While the teaser doesn’t give away too much, it hints at a story of love, culture, and romance. If you are a fan of these genres, you should keep an eye out for this one.

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