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How Important Is Sex in a Relationship
Talking about “the importance of sex in relationship” would have gotten us a side-eye just a few decades ago as its considered a taboo. But, in recent times people have become unapologetically sexually liberated and we are here for it. Before we delve into its significant role in a relationship, it’s important to note that sex is not the oxygen that keeps a relationship alive, it does not make things better. The truth is, it might improve relationship but sometimes make things difficult. For some people its the most important thing, but for others it can be overlooked if the relationship is on a good track. That being said let’s dive into the importance of sex in a relationship, shall we?
Intimacy and Connection: It’s undeniable that the emotional side of love is intimacy, everybody wants someone who knows and understands them better than anyone else. And most times sex gives this type of feeling. Having sex can help you and your partner express love and affection in a way that deepens your bonds and strengthen emotional ties. It allows you connect on a different level with your partner, it can lift mood and ease tension. Without sexual intimacy especially in marriage couples will be distant and lonely even while living under the same roof.
Improves Relationship Health and Communication: Having regular sex keeps partners committed emotionally and improves communication. Communication makes or breaks a relationship, and sex teaches you how to communicate with your partner in an unimaginable way through physical touch which speaks louder than words sometimes. Additionally, talking about how you feel during or after sex with your partner can help you both understand each other, boost confidence, self esteem, self worth and improves relationship.
Vulnerability: Trust, and strong emotional connection are unquestionable traits built through sexual intimacy.
Ease and Relief Stress: Sex reliefs stress and tension in relationships. That is why most times make-up sex are the best in reconnecting and resolving conflicts.
Relationship Satisfaction: Overall pleasure and contentment in relationship can be influenced by sex. Having a good sexual intimacy makes you and your partner feel more happy and fulfilled.
Ultimately, the most important thing here is for couples to prioritize their connection and relationship, find a way to maintain intimacy, whether its through sex or other form of intimacy.
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Angélique Kidjo Makes History With Hollywood Walk of Fame Star
Angélique Kidjo has become the first African musician and first Black African artist to receive a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, marking a significant moment for the Beninese singer whose career has taken African music to audiences around the world.
The five-time Grammy Award winner received the honour on Tuesday, August 18, 2026, during a ceremony in Los Angeles. Her star, the 2,854th on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, was placed in the Recording category at 7011 Hollywood Boulevard.

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Kidjo was among the names selected for the Hollywood Walk of Fame Class of 2026. The selection was announced in July 2025, with the Beninese singer included alongside several prominent figures from music, film, television and other areas of entertainment.

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The ceremony brought together several notable figures, including Oscar-nominated actor Willem Dafoe and Recording Academy CEO Harvey Mason Jr. Nigerian singer Adekunle Gold and actor Djimon Hounsou were also reported to be among those who attended the occasion.
For Kidjo, the recognition is tied closely to where she comes from and the music she has carried across borders throughout her career. During her speech, she reflected on Africa’s contribution to music and the influence of the continent’s culture on sounds heard around the world.
“We Africans don’t know what we’ve given to the world. Without us, there’s no music possible on this planet,” she said during the ceremony.
The 66-year-old singer has spent more than four decades in music, building a career that extends beyond recording and live performances. She has released numerous albums, worked with international artists and used her public platform to support social and humanitarian causes. Her collaborations have included musicians such as Alicia Keys, Peter Gabriel, John Legend, Bono, Yo-Yo Ma and Burna Boy.

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Her Grammy history is another major part of that career. Kidjo has won five Grammy Awards, adding to a list of international honours that have established her as one of the most recognised African musicians working on the global stage.
The Hollywood recognition also came with a special declaration. August 18 was officially recognised as Angélique Kidjo Day in Hollywood, adding another distinction to the occasion.
The significance of the star goes beyond the name engraved on the famous boulevard. Kidjo’s achievement places a Beninese musician at a landmark that has long been associated with some of the biggest names in international entertainment. For African music, it is another visible acknowledgement of the artists who have carried sounds, languages and traditions from the continent into wider global audiences.
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These Women Are in Their ‘Rich Girl Era’ and We’re Taking Notes
The “rich girl era” is not only about designer labels, luxury holidays or having an enviable lifestyle. For these Nigerian women, it also shows up in the businesses they own, the audiences they have built and the industries they have managed to influence. From film and music to media, fashion and food, each has found a different way to turn talent and visibility into something bigger. Here are seven women whose careers are worth watching and taking notes from.
Funke Akindele – Film, Television and Business

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Funke Akindele‘s career has grown far beyond her work as an actress. She has become one of Nollywood’s most commercially successful filmmakers, taking on roles behind the camera as a producer and filmmaker. Her 2023 film A Tribe Called Judah became the first Nollywood title to cross ₦1 billion in Nigerian cinema ticket sales, eventually finishing its cinema run with about ₦1.4 billion.
That kind of success explains why Akindele belongs on a list about building wealth rather than simply displaying it. Her biggest asset is not one particular role or red-carpet appearance, it is the ability to create projects that generate commercial value. She has taken the visibility that came with years on television and in film and pushed it into production, where she has greater creative and commercial control.
Mo Abudu – Media, Entertainment and Business

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Mo Abudu took the idea of African storytelling and built an entire media business around it. She founded EbonyLife, which has grown into a group spanning television, film, studios, creative education and the EbonyLife Place in Lagos. EbonyLife Media says its studios have produced more than 5,000 hours of original programming and eight feature films.
Her business has also moved beyond the Nigerian market. Forbes notes that EbonyLife has entered major partnerships with Sony Pictures Television, AMC Networks and Netflix, while the company launched EbonyLife ON Plus in November 2025 as a digital global platform. For Abudu, the “rich girl era” is less about looking wealthy and more about creating an organisation capable of taking African stories to international audiences.
Tiwa Savage – Music, Fashion and Luxury

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Tiwa Savage has spent more than a decade building her name in music, but her public profile now stretches well beyond the recording studio. Her international career has placed her alongside global artists and on major fashion platforms, including New York Fashion Week, Paris Fashion Week and the British Fashion Awards, while her appearances and brand relationships have made fashion an important part of how she presents herself to the world.
That matters because Savage’s appeal is no longer tied to one song or album. Her music career gives her the platform, while fashion, luxury and commercial partnerships add other dimensions to the brand she has built around her name. In her case, the lesson is simple, a successful career can become the foundation for opportunities in completely different industries.
Toke Makinwa – Media, Beauty and Fashion

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Toke Makinwa has made a career out of being recognisable, but she did not stop at radio, television and social media. Her media career has expanded into publishing, fashion and beauty, including the launch of Glow by TM, a skincare brand she developed with California-based beauty company Buluwa Inc.
The beauty business is particularly relevant to her story because it shows how a personal brand can be converted into a product. Makinwa already had an audience that knew her style and followed her beauty choices, Glow by TM gave that audience something connected to the brand she had spent years building.
Veekee James – Fashion, Celebrity Culture and Business

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Veekee James has made fashion her business rather than treating it simply as a creative outlet. Her fashion house, founded in 2018, specialises in custom pieces, and her official profile describes her as an award-winning designer and creative director. She also traces her entrepreneurial interest to childhood, when she made knitted pieces to sell in her local community.
Her rise has also been closely connected to celebrity fashion and social media, where the designer herself has become part of the brand. That combination has helped turn individual clothing designs into a recognisable fashion identity. Veekee’s story is a reminder that the product is not always the only thing people buy into; sometimes, they are also buying into the person, taste and reputation behind it.
Hilda Baci – Food, Entrepreneurship and Lifestyle

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Hilda Baci‘s rise began in the kitchen, but it did not remain there. In 2023, she officially set the Guinness World Records title for the longest cooking marathon by an individual after cooking for 93 hours and 11 minutes in Lagos. She later returned to the record books in 2025 by creating the largest serving of Nigerian-style jollof rice, weighing 8,780kg.
What makes her story especially interesting is what she has done with the attention. Guinness World Records describes her as a restaurateur who launched Hilda’s Kitchen, now known as My Food by Hilda, while building a large online following around food. The organisation reported in 2026 that expanding My Food by Hilda across Nigeria and eventually into international markets is among her goals. The records brought the spotlight, but the business gives that spotlight somewhere to go.
Linda Ikeji – Media, Business and Wealth

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Linda Ikeji represents an earlier chapter of Nigeria’s digital entrepreneurship story. She built one of the country’s best-known media brands around her blog at a time when blogging was still widely treated as a hobby rather than a serious business. From that platform, she expanded into other media ventures, including Linda Ikeji TV.
Her story stands out because she built around an audience before social-media influencing became a mainstream career path. The value was not simply in publishing stories, it was in developing a large readership that could support advertising and other commercial ventures. That makes Ikeji’s career an important part of the conversation around women who have turned attention into ownership.
These women may operate in very different industries, but the common thread is not simply expensive taste. It is the decision to build something around what they already do well. One turned acting into film production, another built a media company, another turned cooking into a food brand, while others extended music, fashion or media careers into new businesses.
The luxury may be what people notice first, but the ownership is the part worth taking notes on.
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Some of the Most Instagrammable Restaurants in Abuja.
Abuja’s restaurant increasingly combines dining with visually appealing interiors and outdoor spaces. Across the city, a handful of restaurants have created spaces where stylish interiors, inviting outdoor settings and beautifully presented meals naturally encourage guests to reach for their cameras. Whether you’re planning brunch with friends or a special dinner, these restaurants offer plenty of reasons to snap a few photos before the meal begins.
BluCabana Restaurant

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At BluCabana Restaurant in Mabushi, the atmosphere is completely different. Surrounded by palm trees, landscaped gardens and a swimming pool, the restaurant feels like a quiet escape from the city’s bustle. Guests can dine indoors, on the terrace or beside the pool, each offering its own unique setting. The menu includes grilled meats, seafood, burgers, pasta, pancakes and colourful cocktails that add extra appeal to any table shot.
Pickle Social House

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Located within Uzzitz Park, Pickle Social House combines dining with entertainment in a lively setting. Contemporary décor, warm lighting and stylish seating give the venue a vibrant personality, it also hosts live music and social events throughout the year, contributing to its lively atmosphere. The menu features favourites such as burgers, tacos, pizzas, sharing platters and creative cocktails, making it a popular choice for casual outings and group gatherings.
Brunch Lane

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For lovers of brunch, Brunch Lane in Asokoro offers a bright and relaxed setting filled with natural light. Its clean, minimalist interior and wooden furnishings create a calm environment that lets the food take centre stage. Pancakes topped with fresh fruit, avocado toast, eggs prepared in different styles and expertly brewed coffee are served with neat presentation, making every table look ready for a photograph.
The Ivy League Restaurant

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The Ivy League sits on the penthouse of Cube Mall in Wuse 2, giving diners sweeping views of the city skyline. The modern interior, floor-to-ceiling windows and rooftop setting make it one of Abuja’s standout dining destinations. Its menu includes steaks, seafood, sushi and cocktails, all presented with careful attention to detail. As daylight fades and the city lights come alive, the restaurant becomes an even more striking backdrop for photos.
Cilantro Abuja

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Rounding out the list is Cilantro Abuja, a favourite among fans of Indian cuisine. Set within a peaceful garden environment in Maitama, the restaurant combines elegant indoor dining with spacious outdoor seating surrounded by mature trees. Signature dishes such as butter chicken, biryani, kebabs and freshly baked naan are served with colourful presentation that reflects the richness of Indian cuisine. Together with its landscaped surroundings, the food creates a dining experience that is both memorable and highly photogenic.
Each of these restaurants offers something different, whether it’s rooftop views, poolside scenery, vibrant social spaces or beautifully plated meals. They prove that Abuja’s restaurant scene is not only growing in flavour but also in creativity, giving diners places where good food and eye-catching surroundings come together naturally.
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Queen of White Hearts
19 August 2024 at 21h50
Interesting, Thanks for sharing @Ene Unazi!
Queen of White Hearts
19 August 2024 at 21h55
I’m glad you shared this because sex and good communication is important in relationship. Though sex is mostly recommended for couples.
Queen of White Hearts
19 August 2024 at 21h58
Keep on the good work @ Ene Unazi!!!🤗