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10 Thoughts I Had While Watching The Firstborn

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Some movies exist purely to entertain. others tell deep personal stories. As a firstborn myself, I can relate to this movie in many ways. From the sacrifices to the silent struggles, it felt like watching my daily life unfold on screen. Here are 10 thoughts that ran through my mind while watching this emotional rollercoaster.

1. Firstborns don’t talk enough about how hard it is
From the very first scene, with Oma and Ebuka washing plates under the rain while Oma’s voiceover spoke about the weight of being the firstborn, it felt so real. We take care of everyone and often forget ourselves in the process.

2. Mercy Johnson was made for this role

Ebuka and Oma

She didn’t just act Oma. She was Oma. The way she portrayed pain, love, pride for her brother Ebuka was as if she had passed through something like that in reality. Even moments when she was just sitting silently with a drink, from her eyes, you could tell she had been through a lot and there’s this loneliness quietly creeping in.

3. When did we start thinking struggle is normal
Oma sacrificed her entire life, and somehow society has made it look normal, like that’s how it’s meant to be. We’ve normalized putting our lives on hold for others so much that when someone like Oma breaks down, we don’t even see it as a red flag.

4. I love Bimbo — she’s that friend we all need

Bimbo and Oma

Every time Bimbo took that drink from Oma’s hand, it made me smile, those were the scenes I loved the most. She did it with humor and warmth without disregarding the level of Oma’s pain. Bimbo made me realize how important it is to have someone looking out for you, even when you’re pretending to be fine.

5. Ebuka’s job hunt is every Nigerian graduate’s story
First class graduate with an NYSC certificate and still no job? I felt his frustration deeply. It’s sad that after spending almost half of your life passing through school struggles and coming out successful only to find out that brilliance doesn’t always translate into opportunity in this country. That scene where Oma talked to her customer about Ebuka’s struggle and he got him the job just proved that everything is connection, you have to know somebody. To get a good job by just relying on your certificate, it’s by the grace of God.

6. Julia and Shirley gave off “bad energy”
I knew trouble was brewing the minute Shirley shot Oma a look of disgust and called her “wretched-looking.” Julia’s sudden change in attitude right after made my blood boil. Sometimes, the real threat to peace at home isn’t your partner — it’s the people whispering in their ear.

7. The weight of loneliness can kill you
When Oma collapsed, my heart sank. When the doctor said it was emotional trauma and loneliness, I wasn’t even surprised. It reminded me how many strong people are slowly dying inside while smiling and pretending to be okay.

8. Ebuka choosing his wife over his sister broke me
Even though I understood it, that moment when he shouted at Oma shocked me. I felt disappointed. She gave up her life for him, and all she wanted was a little space in the new world she had helped him build. I was livid.

9. That proposal at the hospital came too late

Oma on her sickbed

When the old customer finally confessed his love, I almost cried. Finally after all the pain, she finally had someone who saw her and she didn’t live to enjoy it. Life really isn’t fair sometimes.

10. We need to appreciate our firstborns more
Oma’s story made me want to hug every firstborn I know. We often carry too much, and we act like it’s fine when deep down we know it’s slowly eating us. This movie reminded me that while being strong is great, but what’s the point when the cost you pay is with your life.

Final Thoughts
This is to every first child out there, it’s okay to be selfish at times, so someone won’t end up eating the fruit of your labor.

Put yourself first and you’ll see there’s always plenty of room for your siblings.
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Niyi Akinmolayan Unveils Teaser for “Colours of Fire” Starring Osas Ighodaro and Uzor Arukwe

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The curtains have been drawn, and the stage is set for a cinematic masterpiece. Niyi Akinmolayan, dropped the teaser for his latest film “Colours of Fire” starring Uzor Arukwe and Osas Ighodaro as lead actors, set to be released on 24th December, 2025.

Image: Osas Ighodaro

Image: Osas Ighodaro

The plot looks at when love sparks between two enemies, an empire is thrown into chaos. A prophecy came to life, which could change everything. The trailer leaves you wondering how love can grow between enemies and the disagreement that comes from both empires could throw what they share into a war. Well, will the prophecy change everything and mend both empires?

The movie is a thriller set in a traditional African theme of the 90’s. Each scene blended with the concept of the movie, from the rich and cultural set design, to the vibrant and bold colours of costume which perfectly represents the sub-title of the film “Every colour tells a story”, down to the royal hair styles of the casts combined with it’s dark shade makeup category. The cinematography is visually appealing with themes of red, blue, and gold in most scenes which communicated the effectiveness and emotional display of the movie.

Image: Uzor Arukwe

Image: Uzor Arukwe cast reveal cby Niyi Akinmolayan

You can tell a movie will be worth your time when you see the cast. Uzor Arukwe and Osas Ighodaro are two formidable stars in the film industry. From the trailer you can get a sense of their characters. Uzor Arukwe brings that intensity and tension which makes us wonder what secrets his character holds. Osas Ighodaro brings this sultry aura and fierceness, you can’t help but be drawn to her story. The chemistry between them is intense and we look forward to it on our screen.

While the teaser doesn’t give away too much, it hints at a story of love, culture, and romance. If you are a fan of these genres, you should keep an eye out for this one.

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Medlin Boss is a Star in This Pink Blazer Dress

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Medlin Boss has once again proven her impeccable style and flair for fashion. She rocks a pink blazer dress which leaves fans and fashion lovers alike in awe. Just as her audio caption says “She’s like a Star” and she owned up to it in this dress.

Image: Medlin Boss

Image: Medlin Boss

Medlin Boss is no stranger to the fashion world. It’s safe to expect nothing less but daring from her. She has stood the test of time in putting out styles that set trends.

What makes her dress stand out? The style. Her dress is short, with a well structured silhouette, and long flared sleeves. It features a symmetrical button-up illusion closure on the front. She completes this look with a pair of sunglasses and a blue pointed toe heel. The pink colour choice added a touch of femininity and glamour to her overall look. The blazer accentuates her curves so beautifully giving room for her long, slender legs to take the center stage.

Image: Medlin Boss

Image: Medlin Boss

Her outfit gives off the attitude of being; soft, daring, confident, bold, and unapologetic.

Her outfit is a reminder that fashion is a form of self-expression, and there’s no “right” way to pull it off. This is your cue to try out a pink blazer dress on your next outing. It commands so much attention in any room you step into.

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Trailer Review for “Safari”

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When the trailer for Safari dropped, it immediately set social media buzzing. Directed by Obi Emelonye and fronted by Osas Ighodaro, the film promises an emotional and unpredictable journey; part thriller, part moral drama, set against Kenya’s vivid landscapes. The movie is scheduled for release on November 9, 2025, and anticipation is already building across Africa’s film circles.

Ighodaro plays the wife of a Nigerian politician who seems to have it all: luxury, power, and influence, yet she feels trapped in her own life. A trip to Kenya offers the illusion of freedom, but that calm doesn’t last. When a British tourist is found dead and a local man she has befriended becomes the prime suspect, her escape turns into a dangerous web of secrets and suspicion.

From its opening moments, the trailer pulls viewers in. Kenya looks stunning but never sanitized. The camera lingers on sunlit beaches, bustling markets, and tense silences between characters. Every scene feels loaded, not with melodrama but with the quiet dread of choices that cannot be undone.

The cast is a key part of the film’s appeal. Alongside Osas Ighodaro, audiences can expect strong performances from an ensemble of both established Nollywood talent and emerging Kenyan actors. Notably, Emmanuel Mugo portrays Joe Chiama, a local man who becomes entangled in the unfolding drama. Ali Nuhu takes on the role of Senator Farouk, Nkiru’s powerful yet distant husband. Jide Kene Achufusi plays the Lawyer, navigating the legal complexities that arise, while Ken Ambani portrays the Inspector, investigating the mysterious death. Their chemistry brings authenticity to the cross-cultural storyline, adding depth and tension to a narrative where every glance and gesture carries weight.

What is refreshing about Safari is how grounded it feels. Kenya is not presented as a backdrop for drama; it is part of the story, unpredictable, beautiful, and charged with danger. The cinematography captures the tension between freedom and fear, giving the film a visual pulse that feels both intimate and expansive.

Of course, trailers can mislead. Safari could lose its footing if it leans too heavily on romance or moral panic. But if Emelonye keeps the balance between tension and emotion, this could be one of Nollywood’s most talked-about releases of the year.

More than anything, Safari feels like a film about running: from love, from guilt, from the versions of ourselves we no longer recognise. And sometimes, as this trailer suggests, the hardest person to escape is yourself.

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