Lifestyle
Once Upon a Time, Hushpuppi
In the heart of Lagos, where dreams often outpace reality, a young boy named Ramon Olorunwa Abbas watched the world from a different lens.
Born on October 11, 1982, into humble beginnings, with a taxi-driving father and a bread-selling mother, survival was the name of the game. The bustling streets of Lagos taught him that money wasn’t just power. He attended Government College in Ikorodu, Lagos State, for his secondary education. Before achieving international notoriety, he reportedly sold second-hand clothes in Lagos before relocating to Malaysia, spending some time there before moving to Dubai.

Hushpuppi’s family background was modest. His father was a taxi driver, and his mother sold bread in Lagos. According to reports, his mother did not support his lavish lifestyle and warned him several times to stop flaunting his wealth online. He also had an elder sister who, according to him, died in Gbagada Hospital, Ikeja Lagos, while awaiting typhoid and malaria treatment. He blamed the Nigerian government for both her death and that of his stepmother, citing negligence.
Fast forward a few years, and Lagos could barely contain him. Ramon, now known as Hushpuppi, had upgraded from the dusty markets of Balogun to the glitzy skyscrapers of Dubai. He wasn’t just rich—he was filthy rich, or at least that’s what his Instagram feed screamed. Rolls-Royces, Ferraris, Dior head-to-toe, private jets, penthouses overlooking the Arabian Gulf.

Hushpuppi wasn’t just living the dream; he was selling it to millions of eager followers. His social circle included individuals like Ismaila Mustapha, popularly known as Mompha, a Nigerian billionaire and once a close friend. However, their relationship reportedly soured over time. He was also associated with several Nigerian celebrities and flaunted his connections on social media.
But behind the designer shades and Cartier bracelets lay a secret. Money doesn’t just appear, and wealth without a trace always has a backstory. As the world marveled at his extravagant lifestyle, law enforcement agencies were quietly piecing together the puzzle of how this former second-hand clothes seller had become the self-proclaimed “Billionaire Gucci Master.”

Relationships and Personal Life
Hushpuppi had three children from three different women. Two of them lived in London, and the third lived in New York City. His first baby mama, Miss Sho, gave birth to his first son, Dior. However, their relationship turned sour in 2017 when she accused him of being a deadbeat dad, a claim he denied by posting receipts of financial transactions and gifts for his son.
Little is known about his second baby mama, except that she is the mother of Jayden, his daughter and second child.
In 2018, Hushpuppi got married to Shawana Nakesia Chapman, a citizen of St. Kitts and Nevis. This marriage helped him obtain citizenship in the Caribbean nation.
There were also rumors of past relationships with Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh and German model Amirah Dyme. Dikeh denied involvement, while Dyme distanced herself from Hushpuppi after his arrest, calling him out for flaunting stolen money.

Extravagant Lifestyle and Notoriety
Hushpuppi was widely known for his extravagant lifestyle, which he flaunted boldly on social media. His collection of luxury cars was jaw-dropping, including a 2020 Rolls-Royce Cullinan, a Ferrari 458 Italia, a Bentley Bentayga SUV, and a Rolls-Royce Wraith. He also claimed to own a private jet, a blend of luxury, extravagance, and controversy.
He was also known for his love of luxury travel, visiting exotic destinations, staying in five-star hotels, and dining at the finest restaurants. He reportedly had a St. Kitts and Nevis passport, which allowed him to travel freely.

Before his arrest in 2020, Hushpuppi lived in Dubai, where he resided in a luxury apartment. He favored designer brands like Gucci, Louis Vuitton, and Versace, flaunting his latest purchases on social media. His nights were often filled with partying and rubbing shoulders with celebrities and influencers.
Despite his lavish lifestyle, Hushpuppi was also known for his philanthropic efforts. He frequently donated to charitable causes in Nigeria and often surprised his friends and followers with expensive gifts. However, his lifestyle was not without controversy. Many criticized him for flaunting his wealth in a country where poverty was widespread. He was also accused of promoting materialism and influencing youths to engage in fraudulent activities.
Arrest and Conviction
For years, Hushpuppi maintained that he was a real estate developer, using this narrative to justify his flamboyant lifestyle. However, beneath the surface, authorities were closing in on him.
In June 2020, Dubai’s finest stormed his lavish residence in a raid known as Fox Hunt 2, uncovering over $40 million in cash, 13 luxury cars, and evidence of scams worth hundreds of millions of dollars. The same Instagram that made him famous became his downfall, as videos of his arrest spread like wildfire.

He was later transferred to the United States, where he was accused of orchestrating scams involving business email compromise (BEC) fraud, defrauding companies and individuals of millions of dollars. His arrest shocked many who admired his lifestyle, exposing the dark reality behind his wealth.
His friend, Mompha, was also arrested the same year but was later released. Contrary to various claims that Hushpuppi had been freed, he remains incarcerated. In 2022, he was sentenced to 11 years behind bars, trading silk sheets for a prison cot.

The Lesson
Hushpuppi’s story is a modern-day rags-to-riches-to-ruins tale. It’s a reminder that not all that glitters is gold and that sometimes, the most expensive lifestyle comes with the highest price.
His story is also a clear reflection of modern society’s obsession with wealth and materialism and a stark reminder that success built on deception is fleeting. His downfall served as a cautionary tale, true wealth and success come from hard work, integrity, and a commitment to making a positive impact on the world.
Sex & Relashionships
Why Sex Belongs in Your Wellness Routine
When Nigerians talk about wellness, the conversation usually revolves around eating right, hitting the gym, or meditating at sunrise. But there’s one part of health that rarely gets attention, even in casual conversations: sex. It’s more than pleasure; it’s a natural way to boost your mood, sharpen your body, and ease stress.

Sex works like a workout, raising your heart rate, engaging muscles, and improving circulation. It may not replace a full gym session, but it counts as physical activity. Regular intimacy has been linked to better sleep, stronger immunity, and even lower blood pressure, all without leaving your bedroom.
The mental benefits are just as powerful. Intimacy releases hormones like oxytocin and endorphins, the same chemicals that give you a rush after Sunday football or a lively dance session at a Lagos party. These natural boosts can help fight stress, ease anxiety, and improve your focus on work or studies.

Sex also helps you stay in tune with your body. It’s not about checking boxes or meeting expectations. Whether it’s the closeness with a partner or simply exploring your own body, intimacy can build confidence and remind you that wellness is about feeling alive, not just looking healthy.
For couples, regular intimacy strengthens bonds and keeps relationships resilient through everyday pressures. For singles, understanding your own needs can be just as empowering. Approaching sex intentionally, safely, and consensually makes it a way to care for yourself, rather than a chore.

In Nigeria, talking openly about sexual health can still be tricky. But including intimacy as part of your wellness routine is essential. Ignoring it doesn’t make it less important; it only limits one of the simplest ways to feel happier and healthier.
So, the next time you think about wellness, whether it’s a morning run, a smoothie, or a mindfulness session, remember that pleasure has a role too. A healthy sex life can boost your energy, improve your mood, and leave you feeling more balanced, body and mind.
Lifestyle
Could Side-Sleeping Be Shaping Your Face?
Most people have a go-to sleeping position. For side-sleepers, that comfort might come with a hidden price: subtle changes to the face that last longer than the pillow marks you see at dawn.
The Science Behind “Sleep Wrinkles”
When you sleep on your side, your face presses into the pillow for hours. That repeated pressure can lead to what doctors call sleep wrinkles. Unlike expression lines that follow the path of a smile or frown, these wrinkles form in unusual directions, shaped by the way your skin is compressed against the pillow.
Younger skin usually recovers quickly because collagen and elastic fibres are firm. As the years pass, skin loses some of that flexibility. The result is that marks which once faded by noon can eventually become permanent lines.
Why Your Sleeping Side Matters

Back-sleepers rarely face this issue since their faces barely touch the pillow. Side and stomach sleepers, however, are more exposed. Research shows that people who favour one side often develop more creases or slight sagging on that side of the face.
This does not mean your bone structure is shifting; adult skulls remain fixed. What changes are the skin and soft tissues, which can show subtle differences after years of nightly pressure.
What We Still Don’t Fully Know

The science is clear on the link between pressure and wrinkles, but gaps remain. Most studies have been carried out in Western populations, and less is known about how these effects play out in African or darker skin types. Melanin offers some natural protection, and thicker skin layers can resist wrinkling for longer, yet constant pressure can still leave lasting impressions.
Climate and bedding are also important. In hot countries like Nigeria, heat, sweat and the type of pillow fabric used may influence how much friction the skin endures at night.
How to Reduce the Impact

If you prefer side-sleeping, you do not have to change everything at once. Small adjustments can help:
Try sleeping on your back more often.
If you must sleep on your side, switch sides regularly.
Use silk or satin pillowcases to cut down on friction.
Choose pillows that support the head while reducing facial pressure.
Protect your skin with daily moisturiser and sunscreen, since sun damage combined with sleep pressure can speed up ageing.
The Bottom Line

Side-sleeping can, over time, affect the skin by creating wrinkles or soft-tissue changes, but it will not alter your bone structure. The effect is subtle for many people and becomes more noticeable with age.
In short, your pillow does more than cradle your head. Over the years, it may be quietly shaping your face.
Sex & Relashionships
Can Your Partner’s Scent Actually Reduce Anxiety?
Ever noticed how just catching a whiff of your partner can make a stressful day feel a little lighter? That comforting smell isn’t just in your head; science suggests it can have real calming effects.
Research indicates that familiar scents, like your partner’s perfume, cologne, or natural body odor, may trigger the release of oxytocin, a hormone linked to bonding and relaxation. Simply hugging your partner, snuggling, or keeping a worn T-shirt nearby can help you feel calmer after a tense day.

Our brains are wired to connect smells with memories and emotions. The olfactory system interacts closely with areas of the brain that regulate fear and anxiety, such as the amygdala. That’s why a partner’s scent can give an almost instant sense of comfort and safety.

For couples in long-distance relationships, these effects can be especially valuable. Swapping clothing items or using shared-scented products can create a sense of closeness even when physical hugs aren’t possible. In daily life, this subtle connection can strengthen emotional bonds while easing stress.

Of course, the effect isn’t the same for everyone. Personal preferences, past experiences, and even genetics can influence how soothing a partner’s scent feels. But for many people, a familiar fragrance is a simple, quietly powerful way to feel more relaxed and connected.
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